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Friday, July 10, 2015

asexual with a fetish?

What if you get aroused fantasizing about something and sometimes even get to engage in this arousal with another person. Is this person asexual? Does it depend on the fetish?

By definition, an asexual has no sexual desire. But then what is sexual desire? This implies they don't masturbate. I am aroused by certain actions but am not interested in having sexual relations -- which as president Clinton considered as intercourse.

But then that's confusing because then what about gay sex; they don't have intercourse so are they having sexual relations? I think so. My conclusion then has to be that I am not asexual. What  am I?
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